That way you can leave if you start to feel uncomfortable.
It is also a good idea to make an agreement with your parents that you can call them at any time, no questions asked, if you need help or are feeling unsafe.
Lesbians are more likely to have certain health problems, like obesity, smoking, and depression, so make sure you learn how to stay healthy and strong.
If you date someone even a few years older than you, the chances go up that your partner will want to have sex before you feel ready.
Everybody makes mistakes — that’s just part of learning.
But it doesn’t make sense to keep doing something that feels wrong to you.
If you’re having feelings of romantic or physical attraction to other girls, you may wonder if you are gay.
You can focus instead on protecting your health and respecting each other’s feelings.A solid relationship comes from being with someone who supports you, trusts you, and appreciates you for who you are. As you start thinking about love and sex, don’t forget to focus on feeling good about yourself. When it comes to deciding about kissing and more, remember that so much of what you see on TV and hear in songs is not real or healthy.And remember that there are lots of ways to show affection other than sex. You’ll probably remember these exciting days for many years, and you want to remember them happily! “I think you should wait until you find the right guy — the guy that really loves you back, the one that is special.Once you find the right guy, of course you should wait for the right age also.If I choose to have sex, I will use birth control.” “My boyfriend and I decided we are both ready to have sex.