If you develop a pattern of taking the same amount of time to text her every time you respond back, she’ll pick up on this and know that you are literally just waiting to text her. At the same time, they build interest in you because you’re getting back to her as part of your normal day, unlike most guys who’d text her back right away. When figuring out what to text a girl it can be tough to take your time texting a woman, especially when you’re really interested in her, and it seems counter-intuitive to think that by waiting (and potentially making her upset) you’re actually making her more interested in you. If she flips the script and takes forever to get back to you, and you (like I do) get anxious waiting for her reply, just put down your phone and do something fun.
During this time, she’ll wonder what you’re doing, why you’re not like all those other guys she talks to, and why you aren’t texting her right away. I used to frequently fall into the trap many people these days fall into, and that is that we keep our cell phones with us at all times.
We become obsessed with checking our phones every couple of minutes, and we don’t take control of our lives.
Instead, we let our cell phones control how we live!
It’s basically the same idea as the smiley face and can also be used to lighten the mood.
(The same thing could be said for using “haha” as this is interchangeable with “lol.”) To lighten the mood again for something that seems serious, you might say to a woman, “Yeah, I just got home from the gym.
They had to kick me out because I started lifting up the side of the building lol.” Just saying something ridiculous like this could get a laugh out of her, and the placement of that “lol” at the end of the sentence clearly tells her you’re joking around as opposed to just being weird.
You’ll probably even get her to fall for you completely over text! Trust me, when you figure out exactly how to do it, you’re going to LOVE texting! I like to use them here and there just to lighten things up with a woman.
I’d like to start off with one of my most important and helpful texting tools . Some dating coaches wouldn’t recommend doing this, but I disagree.