Dress up, go out to the best restaurant, or make his/her favorite meal at home. Think about what they would like: flowers, gifts, the works! In order to stay together, your two visions must align. Maybe one of you wants to live abroad, while the other wants to live near family. No one can do it for you, even your spiritual partner.Instead of getting caught in dualism, look for "third ways." We can move mom with us! The best thing you can do for your relationship is to become the being you dream of, the being you were born to be.
Plan a date with an angel, twice a month (at least! How you treat your relationship will create the results you experience.The ancient teachings of Buddhism suggest that we can do just that if we transform our relationships into spiritual partnerships.If we use our relationships to make us wiser, kinder and more compassionate, we can actually change how they function. You both decide that you want to work together to become your best selves as quickly as possible.Learning to get still and meditate well is just like anything else: it takes training.Find and practice a method that speaks to you and connects you to something higher.